Opening Night — Sunday, January 3
We start together. Meet BMC. Meet the Room. Set the tone for what you want more of this year.
Registration closes December 31
Join Room for More
Black Marriage Club Presents
Room for More
The 30 Day New Years Couple Experience
More conversation. More intimacy. More married friends. More of each other.
January 1–31, 2027 · Registration closes December 31
“You are not struggling. You are busy.”
You love each other. That part was never the question. But somewhere between work, kids, calendars, responsibilities, and everything else that needs something from you, it can get easy to give each other whatever is left.
Room for More is your invitation to be intentional about choosing each other again — not because something is wrong, but because what you have is worth making room for.
For 30 days, you'll laugh more, talk a little deeper, touch a little longer, try something new, and make your relationship feel like a priority again — surrounded by other couples who are choosing more for their relationship too.
A word from the founder
Don't do love alone.
Nai Shobowale on why couples need each other — and what happens when you stop building your marriage in isolation.
Nai Shobowale, Founder & Executive Director
In 30 days you will
Open 30 dated prompts
One for every day of January, written for real evenings — not homework.
Choose from 90 options
Three ways to engage on every single day — pick the one that fits your energy.
Book 80 date nights *
A separate guide of ideas you can use in January and every month after.
Sit down four times *
A weekly check-in guide, plus a Sunday Reset email every Sunday in January.
Meet couples in your city *
Ten city rooms and a national room, private, on Telegram, for the length of the experience.
Show up two nights live *
Opening Night on January 3 and Closing Night on January 31, live on Zoom.
* Applicable tiers only — the date night guide, check-in guide, community, and live nights are not included in Just Us. Compare the tiers
Thirty days. Three ways to engage. Every day.
Talk
A conversation, a question, something said out loud.
For the busy day, the long day, or the day you've got something to say.
Touch
Affection, closeness, hands on each other.
For when you want to be near each other without a lot of words.
More
The private one. Behind a closed door.
For when you've got the time, the energy, and the house to yourselves.
You pick the one that fits your marriage, your week, and your energy that day. There is no wrong choice and no falling behind.
This is a real day from the guide.
Day 5. You pick one. Or two. Or all three.
Day 5
Say It Out Loud
Tue Jan 5
Talk
Name one thing they did this week that you noticed and never mentioned.
Touch
Foot massage. Twenty minutes. Phones in another room.
More
A guided position, described step by step. Private, between the two of you.
Every one of the thirty days looks like this. The MORE option is written out in full in the guide.
Day 22
The One You Avoid
Fri Jan 22
Talk
Pick the hard subject you keep sidestepping. Money, time, family, the future. Twenty minutes. No decisions required tonight.
Touch
End it holding each other, no matter what got said.
More
A guided position, described step by step.
The four weeks
Jan 1–2
Making Room
Decide this month is yours.
Jan 3–9
More Attention
You already live together. This week you notice each other again.
Jan 10–16
More Affection
Touch that isn't going anywhere, and touch that is.
Jan 17–23
More Honesty
The conversations you've been circling.
Jan 24–30
More of Us
Not just this month. What you're taking with you.
Here's exactly what you get.
The Guides
Every tier
- ◆Room for More — The Guide, a ~24-page designed PDF
- ◆30 dated days, January 1 through January 30
- ◆90 prompts total — three options on every single day
- ◆4 themed weeks
- ◆4 Sunday Reset emails, sent each Sunday in January
- ◆Yours to keep and re-use any month, any year
In the Room and More of Us
- ◆80 Date Night Ideas — a separate PDF
- ◆Weekly Couples Check-In Guide — a separate PDF
The Room — In the Room and More of Us
- ◆The National Main Room — every couple in the experience, hosted on Telegram
- ◆10 City Rooms — join one, several, or all from registration; conversation opens December 27
- ◆Opening Night — live on Zoom, January 3
- ◆Closing Night — live on Zoom, January 31
- ◆Everything closes January 31. One payment, no subscription.
More of Us — everything above, plus:
The After Hours Collection
- ◆20 flirty text messages
- ◆7 guided intimacy experiences
- ◆4 role-play scenarios
- ◆3 no-phone connection nights
- ◆3 sensory experiences
- ◆The After Hours Playlist
Private, between the two of you. Nothing from this collection ever appears in the community.
Also in More of Us
The Board
A room for the Black-owned businesses inside the experience to be seen, supported, and hired.
Share what you do. Connect with other business owners. Build referral relationships. And when couples in the room need a photographer, caterer, travel advisor, realtor, financial professional, designer, coach, or service provider — they can look to The Board first.
Because this community is not just about making room for better relationships. It is also about making room for Black business, collaboration, and opportunities that can continue long after January ends.
This is why people join
You've been asking us for years — where are the other couples near us?
For thirty days you're in a private national community with every couple doing this at the same time — plus a room for your city. It lives in the Telegram app, free to download. Not a feed. Not a social network. A room.
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You don't have to live there. Join where you live. Join where you travel. Join where you're moving. Join where you already have connections. Join several and see where you find your people.
“Private, on Telegram. Your phone number is never visible to anyone — not to other couples, not to us.”
The timeline
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01 · Nov 1
Register. Your guide arrives immediately. You're in the Main Room, watching it fill.
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02 · Dec 27
All ten city rooms open for conversation at once.
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03 · Jan 1
Day one. The experience begins.
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04 · Jan 31
Closing Night. Then the Room closes.
Closing Night — Sunday, January 31
What changed. What you learned. Who you met. What you're taking with you.
“Then the Room closes. Yes — actually closes.”
This is not another permanent group chat. Not a subscription. Not a year-round membership. Meet your people. Exchange numbers. And when January ends — take your people with you.
Choose your room
Three ways in.
Just Us
$47
“We want to focus on us and do it privately.”
- ✦Room for More Guide — 30 daily prompts
- ✦Three ways to engage each day
- ✦4 Sunday Reset emails in January
- ✦Delivered the moment you register
In the Room
$127
“We want more of each other AND we want to meet more couples.”
Everything in Just Us, plus:
- ✦80 Date Night Ideas
- ✦Weekly Couples Check-In Guide
- ✦National Main Room from registration, on Telegram
- ✦Access to all ten City Rooms from registration — posting opens December 27
- ✦Opening Night + Closing Night
Most popular
More of Us
$177
“We want the full experience — and a little more room for intimacy too.”
Everything in In the Room, plus:
- ✦The Board — Black-owned business room
- ✦The After Hours Collection
- ✦20 Flirty Text Messages
- ✦7 After Hours Intimacy Experiences
- ✦4 Role-Play Scenarios
- ✦3 No-Phone Connection Nights
- ✦3 Blindfold / Sensory Experiences
- ✦The After Hours Playlist
Compare the three.
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One payment
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Everything digital is delivered the moment you register.
First 20 couples
The first 20 couples to register get a Featured Couple Highlight across BMC social. Any tier. Once they're gone, they're gone.